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You don’t need another “get a man” book. You already know how to get his attention. This is about what comes after: becoming the woman he thinks about, reaches for and doesn’t want to lose. One gets his attention. The other keeps it.
A man can want you, choose you, and even fall in love with you without enjoying every part of the experience of being with you.
And this audiobook fixes that for you.
He was attracted to you .. but then he started getting to know you.
And somewhere between the first date and the conversations that followed, his excitement started fading.
Before you blame another emotionally unavailable man, have you considered whether the experience of getting closer to you made him want more?
You're giving girlfriend benefits to a man who hasn't even decided if he wants to be your boyfriend.
You're making room for him in your life, rearranging your schedule, anticipating his needs, and calling it showing interest. Meanwhile, you barely know if he's capable of giving you the kind of relationship you want.
You've become so good at not needing a man that you don't know what to do with one who actually wants to take care of you.
You want him to make your life easier, but you question how he does things. You want to feel taken care of, but accepting help makes you uncomfortable.
And then you wonder why you keep attracting men who leave everything up to you.
You want him to desire you the way he did in the beginning, but when was the last time YOU gave him something to desire?
You miss the flirting and the way he used to look at you, but somewhere along the way, most of your conversations became about what needs to be done, what he hasn't done, or what you need from him.
But when was the last time you made him curious about you?
The book shows you how. The decks tell you exactly what to say. Pull one tonight and watch what changes.

When you want him craving you.

When you want to awaken your femininity.

When you want him smiling at his phone.

When you want to find your way back after an argument.

You don't finish this book alone. Every purchase comes with a seat in the private Book Club, where the work keeps going after the last chapter.
All four card decks. Draw a card any time, from any phone.
The Woman in the Middle Assessment. One version for dating, one for relationships. Find out where you're giving too much or too little.
Audits and bonus lessons. For the woman ready to ne seen, felt, and experienced.
Your question, on air. Members are chosen to have their questions answered on my podcast.
This year’s virtual girls’ night. Only for women who join now.
Why a man who was excited about you slowly stops reaching, and how to get him reaching again.
The three questions that shows you exactly where you stand with him.
When to come toward him, when to let him come to you and when to stop.
Why being feminine won’t keep him.
The 3:1 Method, so you never wonder whether it’s your turn to text.
What to say so your words land, on the first date or in the tenth year



The one who gave too much, too soon, trying to be chosen. And the one who gave too little, so she'd never be hurt again. Neither one got what she wanted.
But the woman in the middle did.
Keep attracting men you don't know how to connect with.
Keep expecting him to know what you want without knowing how to communicate it.
Keep giving too much of yourself, too soon, hoping he'll recognize your value.
Know when to come toward him and when to let him come to you.
Give more of yourself without giving more access.
Let yourself be wanted, and actually receive it.
Have the words ready, with 240 cards in your pocket.
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Desire, Allure, Temptation, Redemption

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